{"id":650,"date":"2014-02-08T14:28:20","date_gmt":"2014-02-08T19:28:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.chistell.com\/africanamericanfiction\/?p=650"},"modified":"2016-09-30T19:28:43","modified_gmt":"2016-09-30T23:28:43","slug":"find-out-if-youre-falling-in-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.chistell.com\/africanamericanfiction\/find-out-if-youre-falling-in-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Find out if you’re falling in love"},"content":{"rendered":"

By Denise Turney<\/p>\n

You feel alive, alert and in tune with everything around you, in ways that you hadn’t before you met your lover!\u00a0 To exclaim that life is wonderful feels like such an understatement to you. If everyone could feel the way you feel right now, the world would be a much better place. Emotions and moods like depression, frustration, anger and sadness might not exist.<\/p>\n

Being in love with someone else is one of the sweetest, most rewarding, feelings and experiences anyone could ever have!\u00a0 Yet, a racing heart, overflow of hopefulness and a constant expectation that rich experiences will continue to unfold right before your eyes, doesn’t always point to the fact that you’ve joined in love with someone else.<\/p>\n

What you’re experiencing could actually be lust. If you don’t pay attention, the relationship you’re having\u00a0with your lover\u00a0may not ascend beyond infatuation, could even dip downward into obsession. Neither you or your love wants that. To increase\u00a0the chances that you’re actually in love and not feasting on lust,\u00a0find out if\u00a0what you’re experiencing meets the signs of falling in love.<\/p>\n

According to Live Science<\/a>, there are scientific signs of falling in love. These signs include thinking that the person you’re in a relationship with is unique or special. When you’re in love, you also focus on the positive traits your lover has.<\/p>\n

Furthermore, “You bounce between exhilaration, euphoria, increased energy, sleeplessness, loss of appetite, trembling, a racing heart and accelerated breathing, as well as anxiety, panic and feelings of despair when your relationship suffers even the smallest setback.” The trick with this is to avoid longing for the “high” being in love brings. Get stuck on the “high” and you could find yourself jumping from relationship to relationship,, moving on to someone new whenever the “high” of being in love starts to wear off.<\/p>\n

Longing to be with your lover all the time is another sign that you’re in love. Another sign that you’re in love is if you wonder what your lover would think about an outfit you wore, a new job promotion you received, how your home would look if you rearranged the furniture, etc. Bottom line. You care about what your lover thinks. You also want to see and help make them feel happiness, joy and satisfaction.<\/p>\n

If you want your relationship to last throughout the remainder of your physical experience, you’re going to have to learn how to honor, respect, celebrate and appreciate your lover long after the feelings of being “in love” have evolved into something deeper. Appreciating the small, everyday things the person you love does goes a long way. So too does communicating with your lover regularly so you can deepen the emotional bond that you share.<\/p>\n

It’s this that Raymond and Brenda learn as they evolve and\u00a0grow\u00a0as scenes unfold throughout Love Pour Over Me.<\/p>\n

Share the experience. Get your copy of \u201c<\/i><\/b>Love Pour Over Me<\/i><\/strong>\u201d Now at –<\/strong> <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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