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By Journal Writer and Novelist Denise Turney<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Love for happy times to last forever in this world? Wish that those sweet, loving moments in your romantic relationship would go on and on, without an end? Oh, if the good times lasted forever. If your favorite emotions and experiences stayed with you permanently while you journeyed through this world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most Of Your Journey<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yet, that\u2019s not how it goes. Good times don\u2019t last forever in this world, but neither do challenging times. That\u2019s very good news. What do you think?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To make the most of your journey here, start taking advantage of the temporary. As a first step, approach situations with the mindset that, despite how much you like or don\u2019t like an experience, it -won\u2019t go unchanged. Accepting this could keep you from jumping from relationship to relationship, job to job, worship center to worship center and so on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Admittedly, it took me years to learn that nothing last forever in this world. Here, everything changes. Look back over your life and you might see that, although you suspected<\/em> this was the case, you didn\u2019t really <\/em>believe it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In fact, you might have thought that there was a special person, great job, best town, etc. that you could connect with and enter a state of permanent bliss. Of course, you could keep looking. Over time, you might start to notice that you\u2019re moving in circles, looking for a permanence here that doesn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Options<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are some ways that you could take advantage of the temporary. Whichever options you go with, keep an open mind. There may be nothing that helps you to stay in the flow better than an open mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  • Wake with a spirit and mindset of appreciation. A very simple way to pull this off is to raise your hands as soon as you wake and simply say, \u201cThank you!\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Consider the people who helped develop experiences that you enjoy. For example, before you head to an amusement park, concert, festival, etc., pause and think about the event organizers, promoters, ride builders, artists, etc. who helped bring the event from idea stage to reality<\/em>. Let yourself appreciate how these people, whether they know each other or not, worked together to create an experience that you are about to absolutely love.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Be fully present when you are wherever you are. You will never be in that exact place in the same exact state\/perception again. Even if the walls, ceiling, sky, grass and trees look the same, so much has changed since the last time that you were there.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Pause before you eat a meal. Instead of only speaking grace, actually see the farmers working the soil, planting seeds and tending to crop. And see truckers delivery produce and other food to stores. Visualize grocery store stockers and cashiers stocking shelves and checking you out of the grocery store line. All of this and more may have occurred before the meal you\u2019re about to enjoy made it to your plate.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Give thought to doing the same as it regards other areas of your life. For instance, you could think about the engineers, technicians and factory workers who designed and built the automobile that you drive. Allow yourself to see the many different people who work hard to help you gain the experiences that you treasure and enjoy.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n

    Appreciate Temporary Experiences<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    The above actions can help you to see more clearly how temporary experiences are. Additionally, the above actions could help you to live with much deeper appreciation. Keep at it, and you might start to marvel at what\u2019s happening in your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Also, to take advantage of the temporary, coach yourself. Teach yourself that you won\u2019t have forever in this world to take advantage of opportunities. This doesn\u2019t mean that you go through every door you see. It\u2019s smart to pause, pray and wait for Higher Guidance before you walk through an open door.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Once you receive an internal \u201cgreen light\u201d, take smart action. In other words, don\u2019t stall and sit back and try to talk yourself out of what you want. Go for the right things! That open door you\u2019re looking at right now might not stay open.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Life Without Regrets<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    This brings up an interesting point. Among the things that people say they regret when they are facing the end of their physical journey is the fact that they didn\u2019t do what they really wanted to do while they were here. The end of the road is not the time to realize you didn\u2019t live your own life<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    It\u2019s also not the time to finally accept that you spent your days sacrificing (doing what you thought others wanted or needed). If joy is your strength, you\u2019re going to have to consider what causes you to experience joy. Then, you need to allow yourself to have these experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Because joy and love go together, these will be experiences that are rooted in goodness. So, take advantage of good open doors, knowing that those opportunities might only be temporarily available to you. Athletes might get this lesson more frequently than others. Smart athletes know the importance of taking advantage of good opportunities as soon as they appear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Look Up<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    On the flip side, taking advantage of the temporary means that you don\u2019t get bogged down with focusing on challenges. You don\u2019t let undesirable experiences shift your focus off of love. Another thing, you don\u2019t live as if you expect a bad time or a challenge to last forever. As someone told me at a worship center years ago, \u201ctrouble don\u2019t last always\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Did I ever gain lots of encouragement from hearing her say that. It\u2019s true; trouble doesn\u2019t last forever. But neither do good times stay exactly the same forever here. You might be doing yourself a favor as you practice appreciation and steer clear of believing that trouble will last. Set yourself up for greater success by moving from opportunity to opportunity, refusing to bind yourself to a current or past \u201cgood experience\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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