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African American Woman Smiling with Flowers – Wikimedia Commons, Picture by Autumn Goodman <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Give yourself a chance to win if you want to fulfill your purpose. To start, let yourself nurture desires that come from your true Self. Signs that you’re giving yourself permission to get what you truly want include a clearer vision of what you want and expanding appreciation. Additionally, you’ll feel a sense of “Thank You<\/em>” more frequently and perhaps even more intensely. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Get Clear Vision<\/strong> to Give Yourself a Chance to Win<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

To reach appreciation, you might have to forgive. Forgiveness may be required<\/a>, because you might be holding errors that you committed against yourself. You might be holding yourself hostage, away from peace, joy and new levels of success, until you pay for past mistakes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do this and\nyou might force yourself to live in isolation, enter destructive relationships\nor develop physical illnesses. You also might trip yourself up each time you\nstart to succeed. For example, you might willfully break a law, company policy or\nargue until you push people to be against you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Practice awareness and catch yourself if you try to sabotage your success. Keep in mind, sharpening self-awareness is one consistent action that you can take to get clear vision. Here are more actions that you could take to get clear vision and give yourself the chance to win. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Daily Inner Vision Sharpeners<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Write in a\njournal. Writing in a journal is effective at releasing thoughts and emotions. Additionally,\njournal writing is also a good way to jog memories that may be sabotaging your\nsuccess. When you write in a journal, you might also make room for new\ninsights, subconscious thoughts or formerly hidden guidance to breakthrough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sleeping\ndeeply and sufficiently is another action that can sharpen inner vision, giving\nyou the chance to win. Prayer, meditation, walking in nature and sitting in a\npeaceful area like a back porch are other actions that you could engage in to\nsharpen your inner vision. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Keeping a dream journal may also help. Further, you might start to see one or more symbols show up in your dreams hours, days, weeks or months before you experience a major inner or external shift. Pay attention to your dreams. After all, your subconscious mind or your real Self might be trying to get a message through to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Follow Right Guidance<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

There’s a lot of guidance in the world. For instance, you could seek out the guidance of “experts”, people who have spent years doing what you want to start doing or you could listen to naysayers. Look back over your journey and you may find that you’ve listened to all three at different junctures in your physical experience. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

What results\ndid you get when you sought out and followed these people’s guidance? Were the\nresults as “spot on” and rewarding as the results that you got when\nyou followed guidance from your real Self?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here’s a warning as you give yourself a chance to win. As you follow your real Self, you might invoke sharp criticism from people who believe their lives would be better, easier, happier, if you do what they say. In this case, avoiding these criticisms might require you to go against your real Self.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is when your clear inner vision helps even more. Plainly put, let yourself want what you truly want, practice forgiveness and self-awareness and nothing may stop you from succeeding. This doesn’t mean that criticisms won’t sting. It means that you won’t stop.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Take Action<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Giving\nyourself a chance to win calls for action. As you advance, don’t be surprised\nif necessary actions feel like risks. After all, you’re on a new road. There\nwill be unexpected experiences. You may not like some of these unexpected\nexperiences, let alone be able to control or change the events. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

For instance, a parent or child may transition (this person’s physical experience may end). As another example, a job may end or change significantly. Even more, you might relocate, start or end a long-term relationship or change a thought pattern that you formerly sought comfort from.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To help yourself, practice patience and keep going. Give yourself time to adjust to changes that enter your life as you start to pursue what your real Self wants. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Follow hunches. Don’t stop yourself by only dreaming<\/em> about what you want. Go after what your real Self wants<\/a>. As an example, if a loving relationship is what you want, explore more. Visit places that your inner guidance leads you to. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Keep Going<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Work on your communication skills. Also, focus on being flexible, open minded and non-controlling. Spot when you engage in projection as a way to avoid dealing with what you fear. Throughout the entire process, take full accountability and responsibility for your life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here’s another example. If you want to operate a successful event planning company, research prospects, discover best places to spread the word about your business and build your team. Also, follow inner guidance and take on small events to learn about decorating, photography, floral designs and meal planning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Additionally, discover financial investments that you will make to achieve success. Get serious about your success investment. Sharpen your inner vision, consider journaling and dream logging and follow inner guidance. Take smart action. And keep going. After all, it is your life. You really should give yourself a chance to win.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is my hope that Love Pour Over Me will help you as you work your way to the success you want, especially if you have inner challenges to progress through. Love Pour Over Me tells the fictionalized story of a talented athlete who was abandoned by his mother and left to be raised by an abusive father. Despite the challenges, his ended is marvelous. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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